It is not what we have done it is about what we are doing. My father was put behind bars while I was a baby during that time my mom wanted away i see him every few years but cannot stay with him my mom may not believe he has changed but I do even though I cannot be with him to know for sure I know he has changed. I don't know where I come from why I am the way I am but as far as I know my dad is the best person in the world.