I'm often reminded of the long nights I was subjected to when I had a crush on a girl from a different region of my country. Anxious and excruciating days followed by tearful merciless nights, I would try to understand why I was treated badly. Although I may be unreliable having my own biases and being a participant in what happened between us I still believe that it was an experience that has taught me a lot. I hope she has a good life and I hope she won't cause anymore long sleepless nights.