If I want to be a dad one day, I want to be the best dad. Guess what? I'm not going to be the best dad. And that, that's messed up. That's messed up. That means that if I were to take how it is I treat people around me in the same way that I treat a social setting, that means that I would stand up right now and kick a lamp over because there's something wrong. There's like, something that's broken, in this, in the way that we live. There's proof that there's an element there that's not right.