@weesin, honestly, I agree, someone shouldn't be in total chaos without their spouse. I understand just wanting to be held, and to be in said person's arms. But she could also mean like, if they broke up or if he died? Idk

Can you not hear yourself @gtrreaper43? What you've described in your comment is the definition of unhealthy neediness! A grown ass woman should be able to comfort herself and calm herself....she shouldn't require someone else to "save" her from her own emotions. You should really do some growing up before you find yourself in an unhealthy relationship. One person should never NEED another person....rather, a relationship should be about WANTING someone....but both parties should be able to be happy and healthy on their own

The woman isn't needy its just the fact that the man she loves comforts her and calms her down but without him in her life she is in chaos and is not herself its not being needy.

That's a super pathetic quote....I can't stand women who are so needy