Why would you have kids if you're not going to let them experience life, meet people, make friends, make mistakes, figure things out on their own, become independent, and have a life of their own? Why would you have kids if you're just going to make them raise each other? Why would you have kids if you're just going to take your frustrations out on them? Why would you have kids just to set them up for failure? Why would you have kids if you're not going to let them become adults?