Lust, love and loyalty, in that order. That is the three L's of love. The attraction of the eye is the first spark, and after dates and interactions, creating moments and memories, that spark turns to the fire of love. These first two come relatively easy, because when the storm hits, and the fire requires more care and nurture, many will fail. Loyalty is the most important aspect of love, where people choose paths, decisions and sacrifices, that either make or break the relationship.