These are excellent questions, and one should take them on vigorously outside the shower.   And consider related questions,  like:  Why did most Westen Hemisphere cultures (all, afaik) had NO alphabet.  Some had counting symbology. and some rudimentary quasi-standard pictograms, but no real alphbet.   Or why did the Romans use the complicated system of Roman numerals?   And were the picto-glyphic wrtten languages of Ancient Eygpt and also that of China preceded by a phoentic alphabet, and if so why was it replaced?   
Then there are meta-questions:  can these questions be answered, and to what degree of accuracy?   The past is always befogged!   Some think they discover some stones, or ancient papyrii and solve it.  Take a paltry amount of artifacts, and queasy bits of "dating" technology and combine arrogance and we'll have many false certainties paraded as utter holy truths.