I don't understand why people hate pressure and other's high expectations. It's been created so that a person can grow to become a person so great, they could never have been a better person without the pressure they were put into. How do you think Bill Gates and Jeff Besos made so much money? Cuz they moped around, complaining that they didn't have money but didn't have the willingness themselves to get a job? Without pressure there is no movement, without expectations, there is no growth.